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Has your partner ever pushed, choked, hit, or thrown things
at you or threatened to hurt you?
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Has your partner ever threatened to "out" you to your
family, your friends, your school, or your job?
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Has your partner ever put you down or told you to "shut up"
in front of other people?
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Has your partner ever gotten drunk or high and used it as
an excuse for sex or to hurt you?
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Do you feel like it's easier to just go along with what
your partner wants rather than make your own decisions?
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Has your partner ever started sex with you while you were
sleeping without permission?
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Has your partner refused to practice safer sex when you
asked him or her to?
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Has your partner ever left you someplace that wasn't safe
or insisted you go somewhere unsafe?
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Have you stopped seeing your friends or family to avoid
your partner's jealousy?
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Do you watch what you say to make sure your partner
approves?